There is a well known phrase that says…
“If you don’t STAND for something
you will fall for anything.”
As I have matured, which is a high sounding way of saying ” as I have grown older”…..
I really believe that phrase about taking a STAND is true.
As a man,
I know it is vital to consider things,
go through a process
make a decision
and take a STAND.
When I was in high school and college, and when it came to other people’s ideas and political thought….
I was a ship at full sail but without a rudder in the water.
My mind could be swayed with the changing of the wind.
I had developed no rudder for a directed course.
In the arena of spiritual things, I was less affected by the atmosphere around me because of the love, respect and devotion I felt for my father and mother, and the God they had raised me to revere and know.
I had a stance on some things….but I was mostly standing on the shoulders of the influential people around me…..parents, coaches, teachers, preachers and parents of friends.
Standing on the shoulders of others is a credit to the stances they have taken and is respectful and a correct thing to do….for a while.
But without a Stance of our own we have no identity.
And when those whose shoulders we have stood on are gone,
we are lost.
At some point in life we cannot allow others to take steps we need to take.
At some crossroad in the journey of the life that is solely ours…
we have to solidify the stance we know is right for us, dig in a bit, and take a Stand on who we are, what we believe and on what things we will not give ground.
I know it is a good thing to have an open mind, to respect the opinion and stance others take…
however, if you do not know in what you believe or in what you areas you would not negotiate….
then the latest thought…
the fashionable position….
becomes your latest stance
and you never really stand for anything
because you are for everything.
If you are for everything,
you believe in nothing.
Read that again and consider the thought.
The Man to whom I have chosen to be conformed
very seldom condemned anyone,
showed love to all but a very few,
asserted Himself only in particular situations…
allowed others their positions….
but took a STAND.
He never deviated from It….
and in so doing
changed those around Him
affected history
and is Himself, the Stand that all of creation will eventually bow to.
If you are for everything
you believe in nothing.
Is there anything that will come down the road of your existence,
to which you will put your foot down in front of, and say NO….????
The behavioral and cultural descent we have seen occur throughout history puts topics and actions in front of us that we cannot always simply accept as the right thing.
These things might be current and show that you have “evolved”…..
but that really means that you have simply shifted with the latest breeze.
There are many of these actions and topics that any thinking person must consider and then Stand against.
As well, there are topics and actions we must consider and Stand for.
When we become “of age”
there are those things we must Stand against
and there are things we must Stand for
even in the face of adversity and disagreement.
For when you know in what you believe
you can then know what things you are for
or against.
Knowing these two things….it is more important to know what you Stand for
than what you stand against.
Do not sit idly by and allow life and events to sail by you…..taking you astray by every wind that changes and shifts so fashionably and often.
There must be a rudder in the water for a vessel to stay on course.
Be a constant.
Be one who others know as a Lighthouse,
beaming a constant light,
standing TRUE against changing and shifting winds.
Put your rudder in the water and set a firm directed course.
Take a Stand.