Pat Riley said the last comment his father made to him was,
“Son, there will come a time when you have to plant your feet, straighten your back,
take a stand, and be a Man.”
As David lay dying, he said to Solomon, “be strong and show yourself as a Man”.
The world we live in today is somewhat resistant to this advice. The “slouching” of society has been
in another direction.
I will say that we need to reverse this trend. The great Men of history were not emasculated as the current
culture attempts to execute on young males. The heroes we have learned about and admired throughout history were not
meterosexual beings who doubted their gender. They were Men, without apology.
Children of today, women of today, whether they admit it or not, and younger guys…..need men to be Men,
The “cuteness” and cynicism of our current culture has bent the phrase “a Man’s man” ..to have double meaning.
Its time to say….enough of that.
My encouragement to all men today….is to stand up,” Man-up”….don’t worry about verbal “slings and arrows”…
and be a Man. Without apology. Realistically, there is nothing to apologize for.
God made us in His Image. Is that anything to apologize for?
The world needs Men, not anesthetized eunuchs.
Don’t wait until you are 50 to realize this. Your wife needs you to be a Man, now, today.
She may not say it aloud, and the world will disagree, but she needs you to lead. Not manipulate. Lead.
Your son needs the lifelong example, your daughter needs the proper treatment and she needs a
role model for her husband-to-be and all younger guys around you need to see a “Man-in-full”.
What does this mean?
Be strong in The Lord.
Know and know how to use Scripture.
Be what God calls you to be throughout His Word. Seek and Discover what that means.
Fight any and all battles which need to be fought.
Know that Father knows best, without apology. for your family.
Walk with Integrity.
Don’t be or act like a boy after you turn 25.
Learn and live by the proper Principles.
Have transcendent causes such as Faith, Family, Country…..which take precedence over any hobby, or career.
Put away childish things……get help if you do not understand this.
Do not be ashamed or apologetic about being a Man, once again…God made you in His Image.
With all the above evidence, plant your feet….straighten your back, take your stand…..be a Man.
Terry
July 2015